Sunshine at last

Is winter over? Maybe. Snowdrops are out, daffs are just about to flower and spring is in the air! Get on to single not desperate now!!!

New layout for singlenotdesperate

A new modern layout is coming to single not desperate to make it easier to use and better to look at.

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Love letters

Do people still write love letters? Texts and emails are not the same. There is something romantic about putting pen to paper and writing your feeelings down. You can also keep a love letter for years. Its something to read over again years later, bringing personal memories flooding back. Find someone to write to on singlenotdesperate.com

The meaning of 'Beer goggles' is clarified in this video clip!

Beer goggles?
Find your prince or princess on singlenotdesperate.com!

Cool Britannia

The Royal Wedding definately makes you proud to be British. I can't think of another country where this type of occasion would be watched by over 2 billion people. Cool Britannia is on the rise again.

Is it so bad to be a bit forward?

Most women on dating sites wait to be contacted, but men would love them to take the initiative. So ladies, make your choice and get your love life under control - you make the choices and get what you want! You may be pleasently surprised...

Rekindle romance in your life

It needn't cost a fortune to do something unexpected. All the vouchers available now make a meal out very affordable. I like Cafe Rouge and Zizi both excellent value and they are always having offers. Or as the weather is better now, how about a pic-nic. Nip into M&S for some posh nosh that will impress. You could even make it yourself. Here are some ideas from the BBC website

Cheesy TV quotes

We should all be so lucky to have someone who will never let us go. The ultimate legacy is to leave behind someone who will love you forever.
-- Ally McBeal
The gents loo will never be the same again!

Is marriage a business?

The latest idea is to treat you marriage as a business where you trade skills rather than splitting every task down the middle. It does make some sense as if one person is great at putting up shelves, but the other can't knock a nail in straight it is obvious who has to do the DIY. It still leaves all the rubbish jobs though... can you be skilled at washing up or putting the bins out? Old fashioned give and take seems to be the answer. Try it at single not desperate. If you watch this video you will see that clearly washing up is skilled after all!

Facebook problems

Is it me or is Facebook difficult to use? I have just spent about an hour trying to add a post when previously I could get to where I want with one click. They must have a team of people who change things just to baffle users. A bit like when the supermarket moves everything so that you spend hours doing the shopping. Very annoying!
Try single not desperate its much easier to use!

Garage love

You know when you take your car for its annual test and there is that horrible feeling that you are going to get a huge bill? Well this morning my car passed first time! I now have warm feelings towards garage mechanics in general - until the next time the car goes wrong.
I need to get onto single not desperate now!!! See here for an extreme case of MOT testing blues!

Desperate Housewives

Am I the only person that is baffled by 'Desperate Housewives'. I have watched some of it a few times, and lose interest after about 5 minutes. ER and CSI are much better. I probably need to go on singlenotdesperate.com to cut down on my TV viewing! Everybody loves Grissom anyway - shame he has left.

A blokes guide.......

A blokes guide to being single not desperate. Have a look at this. When you have fiished studying it you could go to http://www.singlenotdesperate.com/ to put ideas into practice!

Autumn nearly here

Now is the time to find someone to cuddle up to for those cold winter evenings. Try Singlenotdesperate.com

Dating advice on being desperate

Some advice on avoiding seeming to be desperate! or you could go to Singlenotdesperate.com

Is good enough good enough?

Most dating industry pundits agree that making a compromise over the person you are dating results in a much needed dose of reality. Looking for that perfect match is going to be virtually impossible, so it seems to be best to think of a few things that are really important and stick to those. After all if someone has a huge nose or a bit of a tum, does it really matter? To my mind a sense of humour, generosity and looking on the bright side goes a long way.

Brendan Cole dancing on air !

Congratulations to Brendan Cole, probably best known as one of the professional dancers on Strictly Come Dancing, who has married his fiancée, Zoe Hobbs.

Several colleagues from the show were at the wedding, including Anton Du Beke, Strictly judge Craig Revel Horwood, dancer Erin Boag, Jo Wood, one of Brendan’s TV dance partners and one of the hosts, Bruce Forsyth.

We wish them a long and happy marriage!

Maybe they met here on Singlenotdesperate.com???

Now on Facebook

Singlenotdesperate has its own page on Facebook. The fan base is growing, so if you are a Facebook user you could join and see what you think. We are on Twitter too so you can have a look on there as well. Ideas for finding new friends and building relationships will give you new inspiration.

Bluebells out at last

Here away from the metropolis it is possible to amble through the woods and admire a sea of bluebells. It really is a magical sight and will stir romance in the most jaded mind. Imagine yourself and your partner skipping through them - corny I know but nice just the same. The ideal time to do something about it is now so have a browse through singlenotdesperate You never know!