Sunshine at last

Is winter over? Maybe. Snowdrops are out, daffs are just about to flower and spring is in the air! Get on to single not desperate now!!!

New layout for singlenotdesperate

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Love letters

Do people still write love letters? Texts and emails are not the same. There is something romantic about putting pen to paper and writing your feeelings down. You can also keep a love letter for years. Its something to read over again years later, bringing personal memories flooding back. Find someone to write to on singlenotdesperate.com

The meaning of 'Beer goggles' is clarified in this video clip!

Beer goggles?
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Is it so bad to be a bit forward?

Most women on dating sites wait to be contacted, but men would love them to take the initiative. So ladies, make your choice and get your love life under control - you make the choices and get what you want! You may be pleasently surprised...

Cheesy TV quotes

We should all be so lucky to have someone who will never let us go. The ultimate legacy is to leave behind someone who will love you forever.
-- Ally McBeal
The gents loo will never be the same again!

Valentine worries

Sometimes a bunch of flowers from the supermarket just won't cut it. For Valentines day you need to put in a bit more effort. Heart shaped toast, a romantic meal or, if you are lucky enough to live in London, Eurostar to Paris for lunch. That would earn some serious Brownie points. If you have messed up, you can always... look on Single not desperate - better luck next time!

Is marriage a business?

The latest idea is to treat you marriage as a business where you trade skills rather than splitting every task down the middle. It does make some sense as if one person is great at putting up shelves, but the other can't knock a nail in straight it is obvious who has to do the DIY. It still leaves all the rubbish jobs though... can you be skilled at washing up or putting the bins out? Old fashioned give and take seems to be the answer. Try it at single not desperate. If you watch this video you will see that clearly washing up is skilled after all!

Garage love

You know when you take your car for its annual test and there is that horrible feeling that you are going to get a huge bill? Well this morning my car passed first time! I now have warm feelings towards garage mechanics in general - until the next time the car goes wrong.
I need to get onto single not desperate now!!! See here for an extreme case of MOT testing blues!

A blokes guide.......

A blokes guide to being single not desperate. Have a look at this. When you have fiished studying it you could go to http://www.singlenotdesperate.com/ to put ideas into practice!

Autumn nearly here

Now is the time to find someone to cuddle up to for those cold winter evenings. Try Singlenotdesperate.com

Is good enough good enough?

Most dating industry pundits agree that making a compromise over the person you are dating results in a much needed dose of reality. Looking for that perfect match is going to be virtually impossible, so it seems to be best to think of a few things that are really important and stick to those. After all if someone has a huge nose or a bit of a tum, does it really matter? To my mind a sense of humour, generosity and looking on the bright side goes a long way.

Getting to the station on time - or not

Had to catch the 8:45 to London this morning. About 2 inches of snow fell last night and when I went to get the car out it slid all over the place. At one time I was stuck right across the road and couldn't go back or forward. Smug 4 wheel drive owners crept by, but didn't offer to help.

Eventually gave up, then thought, lets try our other little car to see if that is any better. The snag was we haven't driven it for about 2 weeks, (how good is my carbon footprint!) so there was about 1 foot of snow all over it. Once cleared, it zoomed out no problem and got me all the way to the station. Of course the train had gone by then, but I got the next one. Great western said use your existing ticket, even though it was for the earlier train, at no extra cost. Good job Ryanair isn't running the railways, you can just see them letting you do that!

Got to London, no snow, but people dressed ready for a hike up Everest - we country folk know what real snow is!!!

Arthur Daley eat your heart out

With all this snow I dug out my sheepskin jacket. Old and musty it may be, but it certainly keeps the drafts out. All I need is a cigar, a mark4 Jag and a trilby and I will be the man himself. Imagine my surprise when people like Kate Moss are donning their sheepskin jackets too. Wow I am the height of fashion!

Oh no! the G-Spot is a myth!

After extensive research it seems that the G-Spot, beloved of 60s sexperts doesn't exist. I have been hoping to come across one at some time, but so far no luck. Oh well seems like I was wasting time....

Bling is sooo last year

I have heard that Fierce is the new Bling! Seems to be a symptom of the current economic climate. So instead of loading up on gold bracelets and rings, get out all your junk jewelery and funky threads. Could this be a return to the 70s and 80s? Scary makeup and bright flashy clothes - bring (or should I say bling) it on.

Pets reduce stress levels

We have two dogs and two cats and looking after them certainly get things in perspective. Its so nice have our dogs welcome us home, and the cat demanding fuss,even when she does manage to creep into the bedroom during the night!

A swift shove, and she happily settles down at the bottom of the bed keeping my feet warm! Purring does keep me awake though - hmmm. Perhaps someone on singlenotdesperate.com likes animals too.

Singlenotdesperate!

Making friends is one of the nicest ways of building a new relationship. Maybe it will develop, but its a good place to start, and anyway, you will always have some fun on the way.
http://www.singlenotdesperate.com is a good place to start when you want to increase your social network. There are already hundreds of people looking for new mates, friends or a relationship.
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