Sunshine at last

Is winter over? Maybe. Snowdrops are out, daffs are just about to flower and spring is in the air! Get on to single not desperate now!!!

New layout for singlenotdesperate

A new modern layout is coming to single not desperate to make it easier to use and better to look at.

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Love letters

Do people still write love letters? Texts and emails are not the same. There is something romantic about putting pen to paper and writing your feeelings down. You can also keep a love letter for years. Its something to read over again years later, bringing personal memories flooding back. Find someone to write to on singlenotdesperate.com

The long and short of summer shorts for men.

This year combats are a no-no get a nice pair of smart tailored or chino style shorts. Dont make the same mistakes as David Cameron in Ibiza

Poor starving dog!!!!

For dog lovers everywhere - you will love this video of a talking dog!

Chat up lines

Here are a few I found that might be useful in an emergency!

Do you know how much a polar bear weighs? Neither do I, but it broke the ice!

Lick your finger-touch your choosen one on their clothing-and say-Can i help you out of those wet clothes?

Excuse me, I'm a little short on cash, would you mind if we shared a cab home.

Excuse me, do you have your phone number, I seem to have lost mine.

"You might as well sleep with me, because I am going to tell all mates that you did anyway".

YOU ARE SUCH A SWEETIE YOU COULD RUN CADBURYS OUT OF BUSINESS

I've had quite a bit to drink, and you're beginning to look pretty good.

I may not be the best looking guy in here, but I'm the only one talking to you.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too

Oh Dear.........desperation has crept in!

The meaning of 'Beer goggles' is clarified in this video clip!

Beer goggles?
Find your prince or princess on singlenotdesperate.com!

Cool Britannia

The Royal Wedding definately makes you proud to be British. I can't think of another country where this type of occasion would be watched by over 2 billion people. Cool Britannia is on the rise again.

Is it so bad to be a bit forward?

Most women on dating sites wait to be contacted, but men would love them to take the initiative. So ladies, make your choice and get your love life under control - you make the choices and get what you want! You may be pleasently surprised...

Rekindle romance in your life

It needn't cost a fortune to do something unexpected. All the vouchers available now make a meal out very affordable. I like Cafe Rouge and Zizi both excellent value and they are always having offers. Or as the weather is better now, how about a pic-nic. Nip into M&S for some posh nosh that will impress. You could even make it yourself. Here are some ideas from the BBC website

Cheesy TV quotes

We should all be so lucky to have someone who will never let us go. The ultimate legacy is to leave behind someone who will love you forever.
-- Ally McBeal
The gents loo will never be the same again!

Valentine worries

Sometimes a bunch of flowers from the supermarket just won't cut it. For Valentines day you need to put in a bit more effort. Heart shaped toast, a romantic meal or, if you are lucky enough to live in London, Eurostar to Paris for lunch. That would earn some serious Brownie points. If you have messed up, you can always... look on Single not desperate - better luck next time!

Is marriage a business?

The latest idea is to treat you marriage as a business where you trade skills rather than splitting every task down the middle. It does make some sense as if one person is great at putting up shelves, but the other can't knock a nail in straight it is obvious who has to do the DIY. It still leaves all the rubbish jobs though... can you be skilled at washing up or putting the bins out? Old fashioned give and take seems to be the answer. Try it at single not desperate. If you watch this video you will see that clearly washing up is skilled after all!

Facebook problems

Is it me or is Facebook difficult to use? I have just spent about an hour trying to add a post when previously I could get to where I want with one click. They must have a team of people who change things just to baffle users. A bit like when the supermarket moves everything so that you spend hours doing the shopping. Very annoying!
Try single not desperate its much easier to use!

Garage love

You know when you take your car for its annual test and there is that horrible feeling that you are going to get a huge bill? Well this morning my car passed first time! I now have warm feelings towards garage mechanics in general - until the next time the car goes wrong.
I need to get onto single not desperate now!!! See here for an extreme case of MOT testing blues!

Desperate Housewives

Am I the only person that is baffled by 'Desperate Housewives'. I have watched some of it a few times, and lose interest after about 5 minutes. ER and CSI are much better. I probably need to go on singlenotdesperate.com to cut down on my TV viewing! Everybody loves Grissom anyway - shame he has left.

Single not desperate mug

Did you know that you can buy a single not desperate mug? I think it is a Jamie Oliver thing. Odd when he has droves of children and is happily married. You can buy it from Amazon if you feel you must have one!

Facebook page

Did you know we have a facebook page too? Have a look for more posts. Maybe you would like to follow it, there are a fair few followers already ....

A blokes guide.......

A blokes guide to being single not desperate. Have a look at this. When you have fiished studying it you could go to http://www.singlenotdesperate.com/ to put ideas into practice!

Bridal boot camp!!!

Ever heard of a bridal boot camp? Me neither. Apparently this is a new trend to get brides in shape for the big day. Can't one just cut out the chips and chocolate, seems much less effort. You could find someone who gets things in proportion so to speak at singlenotdesperate.com